I went to S4 and met up with Mark and Kim. We were having a really good time and decided to catch the show that was on. We were making our way through the crowd to a spot where we could see the show. As we got to the spot this group of women forced their way between me, Mark and Kim. I stayed behind the women for a while and Kim asked them if they wanted to move through. They said no. After that Kim grabbed my arm to pull me through and told the women she wanted her friend to join the two of them. I got past them and joined Mark and Kim. We were standing around for a while enjoying things and all the time I could feel the women pushing up behind me shoving her drink in my back. I had a feeling something was gonna happen.
A good song came on and we all started dancing. After I was done dancing I could hear the woman behind me talking shit. I turned around and said to her, "I'm sorry, but what is the problem?" She started berating me, calling me names and claiming my dancing caused her to spill her drink on herself. Of course the drink she was holding was completely full. I said, "I didn't do anything, I'm sorry, what is the problem?" At this point the bitch standing next to her dumps her drink on my ass. I turn around and shove her now empty glass of ice on her. The bitch who had been berating me throws her drink on me, slaps me as hard as she could and ducks behind her boyfriend who is spilling his beer on top of my head. They start yelling at me, the two boyfriends telling me to go outside (to beat me up of course), and all the women telling me to shut up, that I threw my drink on them (funny cause I hadn't had a drink yet) and that I needed to apologize. I told the guys I wasn't going anywhere with them. Told the women they threw the first drink on me. Whatever though, they didn't want to hear it. Of course one of the boyfriends worked there (funny...I thought we were at a gay club.)
I found a waitress and demanded to have security brought up there. Security comes and asks me to stand in a corner. They take the group of people out on the balcony, and then ask me to come out and stand on the other side. Mark, Kim and I are standing out there when a male security guard walks over, grabs me by the arm and tells me I'm leaving and he's not listening to me. He starts to walk me down the stairs and I'm shocked. I ask why he's not gonna hear my side, but he tells me it's over I'm leaving. A woman security guard runs up and says no, they are going to listen to both sides. They kind of argue, but I'm "allowed" to say what happened. While I'm telling the guy he doesn't really care and tells me of course the stories differ. I say of course they do because I haven't been drinking and all of those people had been. The guy really didn't care until I brought up the fact I was physically assaulted. The woman security guard was shocked, and the guys attitude changed slightly. They asked who it was and I told them and they went and talked to them.
The guy walks back over and says nobody is going to leave, but we need to keep our distance from each other. That he wants everybody to have a good time. I start to object and every time I try and say anything he talks over me very rudely. I'm fucking pissed. Without even hearing my side they were ready to escort me out. This bitch physically assaulted me and they do nothing. Keep in mind, this is a gay club. I am a gay patron and these were straight couples.
I ended up leaving. Told Mark and Kim I was really sorry for ruining their night and getting them involved in that. I hope they were able to have a good time, but I just couldn't stay out. It's not just the fact I had drinks poured on me (because I've had drinks thrown on me before), was assualted and threatened, but it was also the things the woman said to me.
The other night I had an argument with a friend which was started when it was said that I have a problem with everyone. I try to think that I'm a friendly person, and that most, not all, but most people like me. I realize I can be a bit much and I have a very aggresive personaltiy. After tonight though I really wonder if it is me that causes these things to happen. I mean normal people don't get drinks thrown at them and get into fights when they go out.
Great way to start the new year. Another negative fucking post. I swear I'll have somthing positive to talk about soon.